I was lucky that my mother-in-law was a blessing, but I completely agree that private matters should remain private. We owe them respect even if they don’t do what we’d like them to, although it’s also our responsibility to set the boundaries of that privacy.
Your post wasn’t published in the Ladies of Hive community https://peakd.com/c/hive-124452/created you could cross-post it if their rules allow it. (Read them first, just in case)