Most girls go into their first sexual experience believing they are deeply in love and ready to please the object of their love by giving them the immaculate intimacy of their body, while boys are simply trying to cope with their obsession with relieving tension and experiencing what bodily sex is all about.
This makes it clear that for us ( woman) it was a matter of sentiment, and for them (men) it was a matter of experimentation. The first male advantage : experience comes with practice.
Of course, I was no exception to the rule, and it took me several years to accumulate sexual experience because no one is born knowing how to do it.
This is my entry for one of the topics our host Galenkp prepared for us at this weekend's engagement. Are you good at having sex? If so, explain why (And if not). If you know anything about me, it's that I tend to be very honest, and at this point in life I won't tell you more than what everyone knows: women start their sexual lives hastily and are more willing to please than to feel... of course, I always emphasize that this happens in most cases. It's as if we were born with an emotional dysfunction, not a sexual one...because our sensory mechanisms are 100% erectile. I was a total disaster during my early years with sex. I was more focused on looking attractive and providing pleasure than exploring my own hallucinogenic senses, coupled with a shyness that took me years to overcome due to certain senseless hang-ups. Clearly, the XY variable is missing from my equation, which also didn't contribute much. But, without blaming others, I needed to put myself first and start avoiding all the inhibitions that bothered me and turned me off. Imagine being locked in a dark room full of fears, complexes, shyness, introversion, and a huge lack of self-esteem that had me tied up in a crazy straitjacket, and that didn't let me BE A WOMAN. I don't know why so much fear and histrionics overwhelmed me, in the end I was deceived myself and if someone had explained it to me in detail, explicitly, it wouldn't have taken me so long to understand that my body didn't come with any defect and much less, with a leaflet for its best use because there are always those who believe that it is someone else's fault, and that their magic powders are always the best, and that if you didn't have a damn orgasm it was only your fault... ¡DAMN IDIOT!* Maybe it was just a matter of practice and connection... connection and practice... don't all trades and professions require years of study and lots of practice? In the end, we all strive to do better next time, and we learn from our stumbles, mistakes, and miraculous accidents... some accidental moves tend to be spectacular. I cannot deny that over time I learned, deepened, explored and enjoyed/enjoy very special moments...being a good lover is only achieved through the liberation of your body and your mind...learning to feel is a process in which it is not only about reaching a quick and relaxing orgasm, but about igniting layer by layer each of the hemispheres of your mind in a deep connection with the other person. Am I good at sex?: Yes, I'm terribly good...don't doubt it darling. Today I laugh at my insecurities and the stupid things I did, at the times I remained silent, frustrated, insecure, hurt, bitter, and suffered... Today I laugh at all of that... but the journey was worth it. I hope that the new generations will be more open, freer of taboos, more communicative, with fewer physical and emotional risks, aware of their selves, at peace with their bodies and their nature, and equipped with all the cognitive information to learn to fail... because failures are the true practice of the heart.
Today I made my own coffee, and I must say it was delicious and with a lot of fruit flavor.
And since I'm delighted with my new coffee maker, or rather, my mini coffee maker, I made myself a delicious cappuccino.
The mini looks like a unicorn 🦄
...and my coffee may not have been a real cappuccino, but it tasted so delicious...👄
Always very grateful for your reading.
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