I love the honesty here, and of course, who doesn't relate to being hella awkward and insecure the first time? I agree with you, so much enjoyment comes from shedding inhibitions and silly insecurities...and isn't that refreshing? It means anyone of us can become a fantastic lover. It can be learned. I love that. Great post! :D
In my time, they offered many sex education workshops, but generally they didn't go beyond the importance of using protection during sex, but they never once talked about how to develop the ability to experiment and explore your sense of sex. So, if it had been this way, our sex education would have made many things easier, and probably avoided some failures. You can always learn and perfect techniques... 😉
It's nice to read you and know you liked my post.
Here's to many years of good sex for everyone... 🥂