Making decisions by oneself is by choice, there are some people who can't decide by themselves except their spouses or family members dictate for them. But to me, decision making is personal and no one can trigger me to make up my mind on somethings if I don't want to do that thing, I can say I'm strict in decision making, no one can toss me around at all.
I must appreciate my parents for the training given to me, they allowed us to make our decisions concerning certain things in life when we clock 18years (which is the maturity age in my country).
I decide on some things by myself because I've got to understand that whatever decision I've made, the outcome will be faced by me alone, so when making decisions I do take my time to look at both positive and negative outcomes. I quite understand how essential and risky it is in making decisions. So I'm very careful in whatever I involve myself and decide on so that there won't be bad repercussions.
Although I seek advice from friends and family members on some certain things but I don't depend much on it. All I do is to make necessary adjustments in what I've been advised on and use my discretion in working out what I needed so as to have positive results.
However as human beings, we can't be totally right or totally wrong in our decision making, the situation of life can come in and make life unbearable for us. All that is required of us all, is to be strong, have a fighting spirit and never give up on life.
Therefore, when making decisions I always prepare myself ahead for both better and worse moments. I've understand that my decision can either make or mar me, so anytime I decide on a thing I'm always prepared for any results that might come out.
Everyone loves success and hate failure but sometimes failure comes our way for us to do that thing in another unique way. So I usually count the worst moments as part of the phase of life I must surely encounter.
I also learn from people's experiences to leap before I jump. I make findings both physically and online on solutions to what I needed so that I won't end up not having any results no matter how little it might be. And when I'm satisfied with my numerous findings then I can launch into the deep.
It usually takes me a longer time to decide on a particular thing because I'm a strict decision maker. And I don't want anything that will affect my future negatively, so I take my time to think very well and make necessary research on things. But sometimes things doesn't go as I've planned and in the end it lead to disappointment.
Humanly speaking, I'm usually pained when things go sour for me but I'm not despaired. I've learned that not giving in for defeat is the key to success, so all I needed when disappointment comes my way is to re-strategize and work on myself then I'm sure I will conquer my fear and laugh last.
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