well said.
i find it comes down to my level of consciousness. the times i suffer the most are when i mix up thoughts and "my" current worldly situation with myself. on netter days i simply see life playing out, from a neutral observer standpoint.
when "i" feel i am wanting, chasing, needing i know i have been drawn into the worldly affairs too much and need to get back to identify with the observer, rather than fixing everything and taking this place all too seriously.
blessings