The cakes are lovely and I suspect pretty tasty as well. I'm sure you can learn to decorate cakes like this!
Taking on other folk's worries and/or problems, can indeed drag you way down. That's not to say that you might not be concerned for them, but taking them on as if they are your issues, can lead to lack of energy-even depression!
Take care and thank you for sharing! Have a lovely day! !LADY
