Today. Tomorrow. Forever.

in Rant, Complain, Talk10 months ago

They say that there's always a lesson to learn from certain experiences and I can't help but wonder what lessons I ought to learn from the series of somewhat disastrous events that occured today.

First

It was the rather unfortunate event that occured on my way to school. I was to be in school before 11am and somehow, I woke up from my slumber by forty minutes past ten o'clock. I hadn't had my shower and I had barely twenty minutes to be in campus. Luckily for me, it's a ten minutes drive from home to school which left me with ten minutes. As you would imagine, twenty minutes wasn't enough for me to prepare but I still tried my best.


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I left my house ten minutes past 11 am and it was time to board a tricycle to school. Although I was extremely late and I knew it, my instincts kept calming me down. I had a strong nudge not to board the first tricycle that I saw which was filled with men. I've heard so many bad stories about such tricycles so I waited and soon enough, I saw another tricycle that was empty aandmaandmndineaandmaandmndinendnd so I hopped in.

A minute later, two other passengers joined me and then a guy who looked like a thug(who was a thug I mean. Who else smokes in the middle of the road in the morning?) joined us. The man who sat beside me immediately became uncomfortable and asked to alight. If he felt uncomfortable then something was definitely wrong and so I asked to alight also.

One thing about me is that I never forget a face when I see it once. I eventually entered another empty tricycle and two thugs joined me this time around. My nudge became very strong. I immediately alighted again. At this juncture, the thug realised that I knew what they were up to and so he confronted me. The first thing he said was "have you seen that rubbish act you pulled..". I didn't even want to hear the rest of the bullsh*t he wanted to say and so I walked away without uttering a single word in return. And to my utmost surprise, he didn't follow me.

Since the tricycle at that junction was infiltrated, I decided to start walking. I was over forty minutes late already. I kept walking till I got to a safe distance. I didn't want to spoil my day in the early hours and so I waited till I saw another tricycle that seemed safe. I boarded it and got to school with all my items still intact.

Because of the little incident that occurred, everyone I saw today seemed like a crook to me. I was so sceptical about everyone around me. This continued till I got home.

A friend followed me home and fell seriously sick at my place. I opted to call her sibling to pick her up but she said her sibling was also terribly sick. I didn't have enough money to board a private cab for her and I couldn't let her go home alone as she could barely walk properly. So, I made the brave move to take her home. I didn't know her house and moving around in the night isn't something I do but I wasn't left with so many options. On our way, I was scared of course because everyone still looked like a fraud to me but thankfully it was a smooth ride till I reached my junction again.

As I alighted at my junction, the familiar stranger thug approached my tricycle again! It was night for crying out loud. Don't they get tired? This time around he didn't come for me but for the tricycle driver. He began harassing the driver who was actively searching for cash for my balance. At this point I was supposed to be extremely angry and maybe start ranting but again, I remained calm. Strange stuff. Eventually, the driver settled the thug and he was set free.

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My question however is why? Why do people just wake up one morning and decide to terrorize others? Why choose to make another person's life miserable? People blame it on the government but truely, humans are the real problems. I do not know what happened to people who actually took the bait and went with the tricycle these thugs entered. It is very evident that they had an alliance with some of the tricycle drivers because why else would they allow thugs in their ride in the first place?

I honestly have gotten a lot of minute traumas for a day. This is one more reason why I love the comfort of my bed so much. The only thugs in my home are the mosquitoes and somehow, I have called a truce with them. On a more serious note though, I would really love to hear your views as to why other humans chose to make fellow humans' lives miserable.


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Just imagine people in broad daylight. I don't know why I was so scared reading this, hoping that you wouldn't be harassed or anything. It's always good to follow your instincts so I'm glad you did. The world's getting more and more insane.

I hope your friend gets better, Best. Sorry about such an eventful day.

I was really scared tho but still it's a good thing I was able to escape them.

Oh and the friend is getting better. Thank you best😊

Hey dear will like to learn more from you
How will I get to discuss with you

Learn more? I'm sorry but I do not really understand you.

I’m newbie on hive so I really want to learn more things from you

Interesting.

You can always reach out to me on discord #wongi6235.

Welcome on board🌼

Sorry I’ve searched I didn’t see wongi6235

I think you should add the # in front of it

I did

Okay, how about you give me yours.

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Put the dot sign

I think people just try to cloak thier own misery by getting off on making others feel what they feel. It's inexplicable, but it results from our complexity as humans.

Applauds to you for maintaining your calm and focusing on what matter more rather than feed feed the thug with that he wanted—attention.

How's your friend now? Quite brave of you to help her home at night.

Oh, the friend is still sick but on medication. Thank you for asking.

!BBH

I would really love to hear your views as to why...

I actually thought so

Oh dear, I was heading out for morning lectures. However, your view was seen and very much appreciate. Now, I'm here to give a proper response.

It's inexplicable, but it results from our complexity as human

Talking about complexity of humans, it's really a tough nut to crack. Coupled with the fact that we evolve each time. But putting your misery on another person? That sounds really bad. We're the complex species for a reason. Why not use the complexity to solve our own problems instead.

rather than feed feed the thug with that he wanted—attention.

I'm still surprised as to how calm I was. I know that I was terribly provoked but somehow I managed. Maybe it's because I do not know how to fight. I really should take Kung Fu classes🤧. What do you think?

Why not use the complexity to solve our own problems instead.

Because some like to poke into other people's lives, I guess. Lol.

What do you think?

I think you should pay for two, because I don't know how to fight either. 😅
I was told that our brains can fight even bigger battles, so I don't ever fight, really.
You're cool jare

~bigger battles

I would use this as emotional and moral support. Dalu😊

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Beautiful

Thank you.

These things happens everyday and in this part of our world everyone seems to be minding their business, and you have to be responsible for own security, not even the government can provide that

That's really sad because the taxes people pay should cover security.

Yes it should but unfortunately it's not

That's humans for you. Some people just find happiness in terrorism. It is what keeps them sane.

Thank God for your life, and you did being calm all along.

Terrorising strangers is just insane. What if they terrorized the wrong person and actually got into soup for it.

Well, getting a huge taste of what they dosh out to others is very good. They should be shown how they make people feel.

That's rightttt.. I should look into this🌚😄

Haha, please share with us when it occurs.

Definitely, I will😂

There are sadly people that are just pieces of shit - there’s no other way to really say it lol. I’m glad you got away from that person the first time and hopefully you got away from them without much hassle the second time. People just suck sometimes!