Majority of the time, it ends badly because why are you smiling and blinking at a person every single time?
This got me laughing. Or probably they would ask if you got something in your eyes. Well, making the first move is not a bad thing as most ladies think it is but then men feel more special when you shot your shot first (make sure the man is worth it or else, zip it). I enjoyed reading your post and your cat looks lovely.