I really want to change the way i trust people, it's have affected my relationship in the past, and now it affecting my personality. It makes me isolate myself from people. So i don't repeat my mistakes.
Good day, everyone.Thank you again for dropping by my blog.If I have something to change about myself or an opportunity to change something about myself, it could be trust.
I trust too much and too early, and that has affected me a lot in the past and is still happening. I shared some time ago about how trust ended my friendship.
And I wish to change that about myself. Let me tell you a little story about how my trust almost ended my marriage. So I got married four years ago; my sister-in-law was my best friend. She doesn't stay with us, but she often comes around.
Me and my sister in-law.
I love hosting her because anytime she's around, she could do almost all the house chores, so I love her for that. During my first pregnancy, my sister-in-law was there for me till I gave birth. She is a very sweet soul. So after I gave birth,
I personally named my son Ivan, and then for the tribal name, my father-in-law gave him. But I didn't like the meaning, and I told my husband that we should change the name, but because of the respect my husband has for his father, he told me to just let it go.
So jokingly I told my sister-in-law about the whole thing, how I didn't like the name because of the meaning. As woman to woman, I thought she understood me, not knowing she was angry at me for going against her father.
She traveled home and reported to their father that I disrespected him by being against the name he gave my child. Before I could explain to my husband, family meetings had started.
Thank God for my husband; he stood by me, and everything ended. From that day I learned a great lesson, but I still trust fast. I really want to stop it, but it is very hard for me.
So if I could change something about myself, it would be trust issues. I trust too much. Thank you for reading through.
