Photo Credit:Mohamed_hassan on PixabaySoft living is that moment you let go of relentless pursuit for more and start saying 'yes' to a slower pace. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t work harder to achieve your goals, it just means you aren’t rushing but taking things slow — one step at a time and not being caught up with the busyness of life. But soft living is actually a choice to value presence and peace over continuous achievements.
Soft living refers to a lifestyle that prioritizes comfort, relaxation and activities that nourish wellbeing rather than constant hustle, productivity and busyness. It’s about embracing a slower and more intentional pace of life.
We are in a world where people wear their busyness like a badge of honour, constantly juggling from one freelance assignment to the next, running around social obligations, and barely pausing to breathe. Life is just like one never-ending race. At the end of the day, exhaustion is revealed on their faces, and it feels like things are just not moving as expected despite doing everything right, but it seems the constant for more keeps calling out to them.
They ignore the signals their body is sending — tension, anxiety, headaches etc, and the bad part is how they constantly feel they are still behind. They do not bother to pause and ask themselves whether the uncontrolled rush was actually leading them anywhere close to fulfilment.
The moment you start to acknowledge that the nonstop hustle isn’t serving you, your health or even your relationships, it’s time to activate the slow living button, and this is done by ignoring the guilt you feel whenever you aren’t productive.
When I decided to start living softly, leaving behind the pursuit for more and actually focusing on my health, I saw the difference. Soft living, to me, isn’t about laziness or having zero ambition, because I have lots of goals and aspirations I’m working on, but I just approach them with more awareness and self-compassion.
You will see that when you allow yourself rest, you will notice how your creativity flourishes and mood stabilises, and you will actually enjoy your days rather than just surviving them.
Instead of expecting perfection, find ways to be more content in making consistent progress while also protecting your mental and emotional energy. Soft living is also about creating a lifestyle that values who you are and not who you think you should be. This is done by saying ‘no’ to tasks that sap the energy out of you even if they promised extra money or superficial praise.
For me, it took a while to fully grasp the euphoria of intentional living, especially when my old hustle-driven voice kept telling me I was slacking, but slowly, I realized that doing things more intentionally and not trying to do everything at once actually helps me grow in a healthier and more lasting way.
The hustle culture might make you believe that productivity equals self-worth or that busyness is a badge of honour. In fact, they will try to lure you into the belief that rest is laziness and more hours worked lead to greater success. It’s important to recognize and challenge these toxic beliefs to build a healthier relationship while embracing a soft pace which opens new doors.
Photo Credit:Dandelion_tea on PixabayOne of the biggest hurdles an individual faces is the internal dialogue that keeps saying they aren’t doing enough and that it’s a waste of time. This is shaped by years of equating self-worth with busyness, and the only way to silence it is by digging deep into their own mindset while releasing themselves from the beliefs holding them hostage. Confronting such beliefs and practising radical self-care will let go of the toxic belief that productivity equals worth.
Soft living isn’t a one-time decision; it’s a lifestyle that requires one to keep practising until they can balance themselves, and one such practice is mindfulness. This is recognized as a great tool for keeping balance in check.
Mindfulness is when you pay attention to the present moment without feeling unbiased. It encourages one to be in the 'now' and be aware of their thoughts, decisions, feelings and actions, allowing one to be intentional in making choices that align with their values and wellbeing, most importantly, helping them appreciate the simple joys and experiences in everyday life. Trust me, this leads to a greater sense of contentment and satisfaction.
Mindfulness is so powerful and magical that by practising it, detachment from worries and anxieties is possible as finding a sense of calm and peace in the face of challenges.
Another thing about mindfulness being attached to soft living is how it helps an individual embrace mindful eating, leading to better food choices, improved digestion, and an overall healthier lifestyle. When we slow down and become aware of what we consume, we begin to notice how certain foods affect our mood, energy levels, and overall well-being.
Mindfulness also promotes intentional movement, encouraging gentle forms of exercise like stretching, walking, or yoga that support our physical and mental health without overwhelming us. These practices align perfectly with soft living, reminding us that wellness doesn’t have to come from extremes, but rather from sustainable routines that nourish us deeply — body, mind, and soul. Soft living, therefore, becomes not just about slowing down, but about making better, intentional choices that foster lasting wellness.
One key to breaking the chain of our thoughts when it comes to soft living is mindfulness, especially in this modern life that feels so hectic. To be sincere, stress shouldn’t be something our bodies need but rather to live a more fulfilling life and this practice can help us find peace and happiness. This is why in the journey of soft living, the greatest gift you can give yourself is the gift of mindfulness because the results that come with it are precious and should be valued.
Start with one small step today, maybe taking a short break away from your phone, a short walk outdoors, perhaps around nature because it works, or take time to give yourself a well prepared meal. Notice how it makes you feel. Keep doing the little things that bring peace to your life.
Soft living is a necessity, it’s a lifestyle choice you deserve. Be kind to yourself and you will see the changes it brings.
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