I never said anything about engaged marriage
you are right that people will misuse it but it is already a norm and there is nothing we can do about it here, and since ladies are already into it, would you love to marry someone who has had sex with multiple people and when you get married to her, you found out that you can't satisfy her sexual urge?
it is okay not to engage in sexual activities if both are still a virgin but here in my country, virginity is nothing to most people
I never said anything about engaged marriage
I said it as representative of not knowing a partner before marriage. 😅
would you love to marry someone who has had sex with multiple people and when you get married to her, you found out that you can't satisfy her sexual urge?
In that kind of situation at some point of it, I agree with you but we should not give others as free a license to others. If that things allowed then law enforcement for invalid cheating should be established. In many countries, they live in relationships and law enforcement is good in case of someone cheating others. In the case of Nigeria, I feel in case of law enforcement is not so good yet.
I know that whatever you said is good from one perspective but everyone is not good in this case.
it is okay not to engage in sexual activities if both are still a virgin but here in my country, virginity is nothing to most people
I can understand it. But still, Women are the sufferers at the end and we should not promote it untill some law is established for it.