Oh mhen, this was a long read..lol
I think we should rephrase that word "after God, fear men"😅😅
Those gender can be something else, especially the toxic ones.
I realized one thing that's common with toxic men, they have that habit of telling you stories that will make you sympathize with them while unknowly, you're directly falling into the trap.
The funny thing is, getting out isn't as easy as what people say.. Am glad you were strong enough to quit Asap.