We can change many things, but I really believe that the most important thing is to accept ourselves as we are. And that is what will bring happiness and less resistance.
We spend our lives reading how to do this and how to do that... we can achieve more or less, do things in a better way. However, life is not about being an automaton. Look for motivations to get up, different motivations... if you like being a night owl and find that it is useful for you in some way, enjoy that. And don't make a big deal out of it. Cleaning is exhausting, housework.... find a way to be a little more motivated to do them. We have to find the formulas within ourselves and they are not the same for everyone. Just live.
Un abrazo, @miriannalis.