The process of change is given by necessity or by enlightenment and it is the person willing to change who decides it. When we are kids, there is a great way to teach, and that is by example. The other way is imposing and creates wounds that are not easy to heal when we are adults.
No one should want to change another person. This only validates the theory that the first to change is the one who tries to change the other. That which he sees in the other person, he carries within him and must resolve it.

It was very nice to read you, sorry for being late.