But to answer your question, being true to ourselves is more valuable to me. Because the worst kind of pain that we can feel in this waking life is when we betray ourselves. And so, by being true to ourselves despite our flaws and making sure that we have an emotional acceptance can definitely bring us growth especially when we take time to change our bad habits. This is also the stage where we can learn who we are in a deeper context. Because by being true to ourselves means that we accept our own flaws, we identify certain aspects that needs changes, and we became honest with our emotional changes.