What a good observation you make, both of others and of yourself. It is true that there are people that whatever they wear, it will look good on them. It's as if the attitude is more important than the clothes they wear. But I also agree that not all clothes are for all bodies, and not to mention fashion. There are so many different styles of pants, skirts, dresses, combinations, etc. I think I lost that insecurity when I started trying on clothes that were not my style, but I noticed that they looked good on me. It's a matter of going to several stores and trying on clothes until you feel comfortable or pretty. I send you greetings, I loved reading you!