Hello hivers, Happy Sunday to you all. Another time to write again and believe me, the topics are amazing π All thanks to @galenkp for a job well done.
This is in response to weekend engagement #208 on the topic; Sex on the first date, No or Yes
There's an adage that says First impressions last longer However, having sex on the first date actually depends on the individual's personality, choices, emotions, values, beliefs, and self-control.
My take on this topic would be NO based on some factual points ππππππππππππ
Value
- Value: In any relationship, there should be priority standards and clearly stated objectives. Value is the worth or usefulness of something important, it could be ideas, things, or beliefs among many others. There's another adage that says what you don't value cannot yield good results Valuing oneself won't let you give in sex on the first date. Be valuable!
Respect
- Respect: Respect they say is reciprocal Before anyone can respect you, there must be a sign of self-respect given to oneself. Some individuals delay sex just to demonstrate respect for their partner. The way people see you is a reflection of how you see yourself. Respect prioritizes comfort, concise and nt, and care, ensuring a positive and healthy experience for bopartnersers.
Emotional readiness
- Emotional readiness: Having a second on the first date might not jeopardize emotional connection, love, and trust. This is because you don't know what your partner is capable of doing and you haven't been connected emotionally. Sex is not a good instrument for emotional attachment. Marriage is honorable when the bed is undefiled.
Safety first
- Safety first: How much do you know him/her? What can you say about him/her? Taking enough time to get to know someone you are about having sexual intercourse can help ensure physical and emotional safety. Last year around this time exactly, a married man of high timbre and caliber saw a lady and liked the lady for the first time. He took the lady to a hotel, and while they were having fun, something tragic happened, the man started somersaulting and he died instantly. He died because the lady had been laid a thunderbolt by her husband unknown to her too. She was arrested and later discovered there was a thunderbolt on her(Thunderbolt is a charm used on women unknowingly, if you are having affairs, anyone who climbs can die as a result of the thunderbolt). Safety first
Intimacy
- Intimacy: Sex can be an intimate way to connect and learn about each other's desires and boundaries. However, getting to know each other's desires very well before having sex on the first date is a sure way to deep intimacy. Why not feel a strong connection first before having sexual intercourse
On a final note, having sexual intercourse on the first date requires wisdom and this depends on the individual's personal preference, choice, and value. However, we need to prioritize both party's consent, safety, choice, and general well-being in any sexual entanglement.
**Two cannot walk together unless they agree**
Image is mine
Thanks for reading.