I know it's like that in the UK, my brother moved with his family to Scotland 10 years ago, with his wife and son, they had to change a lot about upbringing...
Yesterday I was in a SPA center, where I heard a father say to his son (who is about 6, 7 years old): "mother and I are not your slaves to do everything you want, we also want to rest a little and we enjoy swimming pools"... As if the roles have changed, the adults do what the children want, and not the children do what the parents say they should do...