Absolutely right, we only change by choice. I have changed several times and it was my decision for my own good, but you can never expect someone else to change because you want them to, it's your choice. 💗
Exactly my friend, sometimes we need a shock therapy to understand that we are acting wrong, maybe it is not the best way, but suffering with the consequences of the mistakes made is that we accept that we did something wrong?
Of course, it's not the same to influence an adult person than a child, they will always be more malleable considering the sentimental connection between you and them...but let's leave the subject to a psychologist...😅
Thanks for commenting
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