Protecting my loved ones is something I have gotten used right from when I was little. At some point, I realized I was being biased in the sense that I was only caring about my family members and it is not really nice.
I thought of spreading the love across the world especially my loved ones. I began to show love to more people and protecting my friends especially the ones who are vefy much close to me. I’ve had so many experiences when I had to protect my family and friends and I have even lost count. It’s good because it is an attitude that I have imbibed in me. I have made sure that it is a part of me to the point that I don’t protect the people I love alone but those who also need help and need to be protected.
Talking about an experience where I had to protect my loved one, I won’t talk about my family member here but my friend.
A time when I had to protect my friend
There’s a lady whom I met during my university days and I’m sure I have written something about her before. She’s from a family that’s not really well to do, we became close and I loved her vibe so I had to move close to her too. She’s been in so much mess and I always try my best to protect or support her so she’s going to at least know yhat she has a backbone.
Once upon a time, she had a problem with her accommodation. She was sent out of the hostel where she lived in because she was not able to pay her accommodation so I invited her over to my place. My roommate was not in full support of it but I had to plead with her so she could accept my friend.
Unfortunately, my landlord knew that I accommodated one more person which was not part of the normal agreement. I had to plead with him too but he didn’t agree and he said he was going to send me packing. I still had to protect my friend during those tough times just to make sure she has a place to stay. When my landlord realized that I was not ready to let go, he had to withdraw the case.
How did it turn out?
It turned out wall because I was able to protect and also prove my love to her. Even the owner of the house could not do anything about it when he realized that I was being serious about accommodating her. My roommate and I had some issues too but I still had to stand by her which was what I really wanted.
Unfortunately, I still got betrayed by this so called friend. I’m not the best person on earth but I could beat my chest that I did something incredible in her life. I’m glad I didn’t do it because I wanted something in return but I did it because I always want to protect my loved ones.
