It is true that loving oneself should come first before loving others because if we do not practice self-care, it will be impossible to show love to others as well.

And if you need help ask or tell them I can't right now. We are humans after all. This way you will see who is using your goodness and who's truthful.

This is very true. It will be glaring who is actually taking advantage of you and who is more considerate and understanding when you say no at some situations.
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