At the beginning I thought you were developing a very closed idea but you are right, at the end of the day if you generate doubts or feel uncomfortable it is because you have done something wrong as a parent also happens that the pressure on the children for x reason causes them to feel rejection for those things, I really liked your post and I liked the development that you have given.
At least for my part I would accept my son for the path he decides to take, as long as he is happy and does not harm anyone although it would probably cost me a little to accept it I do not deny it hahahaha

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