There was a time not very long when I was down financially. My husband did not have much on him (not because he was lazy or I was unproductive myself). It was due to my resilience in having my family in our own house. I was not so satisfied living with two kids then as a tenant. So, I pressed on. I made my husband acquire a landed property and then pushed him quite harder to get loans. And we raised our house. Now, we are happily living in our house. And I have the peace that only a Nigerian mother (with kids living in a rented apartment) would understand.
The Pain Was Severe; The Pain Is less
The pain I was crying for help for was in the past. It was very severe then. I had blames on my head for that. Even my husband almost lost his bearings because of the heat. Now, the pain is less, much less. I could laugh and be at peace. The past is gone. It hasn't gone far but it's progressively exiting. I am in my house with my family. The house my husband built for me and the children. The debts for which he was blaming me are gone. 😀We can't pay twice, now we are happy in our home.
Always Cry Out
When you are feeling the heat, don't keep quiet. Cry out louder and louder. Some people will try to shut you out, don't stop crying for help. It's not everyone who can help, so it's not everyone who will be happy you are crying for help. Hold on your problem and grab it tight; then use it to climb out of the pit of that problem.
The comments I made on people's posts requesting for help are still there. Some saw it and mocked me. Yet others saw it and had pity on me. I received help financially and motivational. My eyes were opened to how I could earn from the blockchain. Believe me, things have changed with respect to my profitability on the Blockchain because of that incidence. Don't keep quiet when all is not well. Don't keep silent and die in the pit. Cry out louder and louder till your help comes.
Problems Are Stepping Stones
A stepping stone is a means through which you step out or step up. Problems are stepping stones for self realization.
Because my landlord was not happy seeing children play around the house anyhow, not to talk of if they hit themselves and cry, I was already under query. That problem became a stepping stone to me being a landlady.
Because we were on some heavy loan repayment so that I could bury the shame and contact people for help, I was guided on how to win friends and be productive on the hive blockchain. Now, a greater part of the debts have gone but what I learnt have become part of me such that nothing would make me throw it away.
Let that problem be a stepping stone for your breakthrough. Don't retardate back into deeper failure. Press on; seek for a way and you will find one.
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