Thanks for this wonderful write up, it reminds me of my past relationships two years ago it's neither cold or hot, this same person will hurt me and immediately ask for my forgiveness and he do the the same over and over again, although he asking for my forgiveness anytime he hurt me but I was emotionally depressed to extent that I can't take it anymore. I asked a break but he refused and I had to left him because I see there is no sign that he is ready to change. He later come for me with his friends to apologize but I made my decision. My intention feels like I should consider him but my keep refusing.