Long time ago, every beginning of the year, both me and my wife now, we use to do this exercise, where we put on a paper 7 major plans, per area of development. 1 was material stuff (increasing emergency fund from 6 to 12 months), 2 relationship goals (learning more about orgasm), 3 what we want (eating pizza in Italy), 4 stuff we love (more time together), 5, intuition and healing (fasting one day a week), 6 intellectual and learning (learning Spanish), 7 God related or spiritual stuff (going more in the nature to feel more awe for example).

Something like that. Every year on 1.01.20xx we used to revise the list, see what we achieved and what to add to it. It was helpful.