Hello beautiful ladies of Hive ๐ค๐
It's been a while since I last visited this block chain and I'm glad to be participating in one of the interesting topics proposed by
@jane1289.
The question goes thus:
| 1๏ธโฃ The month of love is still in the air. As a lady, what do you consider more: Careful decisions about whom to love, or the freedom to be spontaneous about it? Do you care more about present moments or future results of your decisions? Why? |
When I saw this question, I did not have to ponder on which to go for between love as a decision or love as a spontaneity. This is because I have always hold the opinion that love โค๏ธ is a decision. Yes! โ
As a person, I am very decisive. I believe everything we do has a repercussion or a come back which may be in the positive side of either on the negative side.
The least thing I could be spontaneous about is the matter of love.
The careful decision about whom to love gives one the room to understand what he or she really wants. It helps one to have the knowledge of what it is you can keep up with and when it is to let go.
I mean you do not necessarily have to define love in a particular way but you can decide on what and how you want it to be.
People who are spontaneous are ready to do a particular thing without a moment's notice. This is mostly hard for me especially in matters of the heart. I'd rather prefer to take my time rather than jump right in.
Also, for spontaneous people, plans changing is less of an issue. This is because they are more than willing to embrace a new plan.
On the contrary, it takes a long time for me to adjust to certain things, much more, to love. I do not find it easy to love intimately but when I do, my full chest goes along. As such, I make sure to be very decisive.
Do I care more about the present moments or future results of my decisions? ๐ค
I assume from the things I said so far, you'd think I am concern more about future results ๐. To me, I feel they walk in pari passu.
I love to make good use of the present while ensuring it does not jeopardize my future.
I mean, you may not really know what the future holds, if you'd survive till then so, I make my present worthwhile and plan for a better future ๐.
I am @yhubee
Thanks for having me and reading through my blog โบ๏ธ
@ladiesofhive
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