When I look at the major decisions I make in life, I realize they are guided by three important values: honesty, kindness, and forgiveness. These values are not just words to me; they are principles I try to live by daily. They shape how I relate to people, how I handle responsibilities, and how I make choices that affect my future.
Honesty comes first for me because I believe that truth is the foundation of trust. As a seamstress, I make sure I deliver people’s dresses on time, and if I am not certain I can meet the deadline, I inform the person early enough. Sometimes, I even reject jobs to avoid disappointing my customers. This practice has drawn many clients to my shop because they know they can rely on my word and trust me with their work. Whether it is in friendships, family, or work, I have learned that being truthful helps to build lasting relationships and keeps my conscience clear.
Kindness is another value I treasure. I can remember one rainy evening when a man selling tiger nuts mistakenly hit a stone with his wheelbarrow. The entire content spilled on the ground, and he struggled to gather them back all alone, probably because he knew no one would want to stop under the rain to help. As I approached, I didn’t wait for him to ask. I dropped my handbag in a dry place and bent down to help him pack the tiger nuts. He was overjoyed and even offered me some in appreciation, but I declined. What mattered to me was seeing his worried face light up with a smile again. I try to treat people with compassion and respect because I know that even small acts of kindness can make a big difference in someone’s day.
The third value is forgiveness, and while I strongly believe in it, I must admit it is the most challenging to practice. Letting go of hurt or betrayal is never easy, s ometimes I hold on longer than I should, replaying the wrong in my mind. However, I know that true peace comes with forgiving others, so I keep working on it. Forgiveness is not just about the other person; it also frees me from bitterness and helps me move forward.
In conclusion, honesty, kindness, and forgiveness are the pillars of my decision-making. Although forgiveness is the hardest for me, I recognize its power and continue to grow in practicing it, because I want to live a life of peace and wholeness.
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