Everyone at some point in their life comes across a situation where they feel worthless with dropping confidence. Where it’s like no matter what you do & how much you work hard you are not getting the deserved results, the one you need & deserve. And as a result, you feel more distressed and discouraged and end up doubting yourself.
Less or more even I encountered a similar situation. Being a student with a major in computer science, but still not able to solve a simple array problem in your prefinal year. I know how it feels. You may think this isn’t even worth telling. But for me as a teen for whom this is going to be a future career, this was the worst thing that could happen. I used to spend days on a single problem that was labelled easy but I still, couldn’t do it. I tried, tried & tried for days but still couldn’t. That’s when reality struck me. I started overthinking and my confidence levels kept on dropping. The self-doubts I had overshadowed my confidence. As a result, I lost my focus & couldn’t keep my calm. This was my story.
People just face different things which affect their confidence, and this was it for me. I still remember it was quite hard getting from that phase of self-doubt. But the most important thing is not giving up. It doesn’t matter how many times you try, or how many times you fail or succeed. If it is something you want to do then just go for it. You get the answer to your doubts only through yourself. Just ask yourself these simple questions. Like
Do you want to continue this even after everything that had happened?
Do you think this is worth all the hard work & hardships you go through?
Do you really like it?
If yes, then the answer’s simple. Just persist through it and work hard because eventually, they all pass.
I got an answer to my doubts this way. I like coding, doesn’t matter if I get stuck with it for days, and get stressed or discouraged. In the end, I’m still going to choose this way because it is something I like. So when in self-doubt, question yourself. I am a strong believer of only you can help yourself. So don’t let anything or anyone affect you. In the long run, you will realize that it’s just a phase you laugh over..
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