What a bad name has been given to Love, my dear lady Jane, what a fear of real love, and so in general, how much confusion there is, fortunately love makes its way every day, above the big declarations, it is love that blooms every day and true love that is demonstrated, and is lived every day of the calendar.
And whether we are afraid or not, it is an act of the deepest love, to be moved by the soul of the other.
In a world where humans are so afraid of losing, there are too many walls that protect us from dissolving into the light of another soul.
Love is a decision and the invisible bond that unites our hearts.
Love goes through so many stages that when we discover that we are in the same loving harmony with someone, our expectations regarding love are totally different.
True love begins by loving us beautifully, with respect, without self-flagellation, recognizing our values and to the extent that we are willing to negotiate to have someone different by our side, with the same premises, who also values us and generates trust.
I believe in love, in the first debate, first argument, first joke, with good humor, first genuine laughter, in the first sincere conversation, in the first comfortable silence, in compassion and support through difficulties, shared pain and the first divided joy.
Someone to share the joys and weight of living with. Who also conquered you without poses, or pretty faces and with whom you will be able to show yourself as you are, in the first genuine desire not to hurt or hurt the one you love.
When it comes to true love, many authors have written, but the one who knows the most about their relationship is oneself. Everyone in their own process.
Why?
Because there are too many preconceived ideas that do not correspond to how simple it is to love and let yourself be loved, to recognize that this fact commits you to that feeling and to that person.
There is no maturity to make decisions and assume the consequences of them.
It has been normalized to separate the equation love = commitment, wanting to make love seem free, untethered as the maximum representative and that it makes you happy.
In the end, they realize that they pass from relationship to relationship, without getting it.
My values are priceless, thank you to everyone who tempted me to pretend to deviate from the path of love. I will not do it the same as anyone, I will do it the way I have to do it, at any price.
Today I celebrate my love for my husband, his commitment, intelligence, passion, talent, respect, love, constant struggle, his vehemence, rectitude and the most beautiful thing about him is that he lets me be, that is why, Beloved husband, today I choose you again…
Thank you to those who believe and practice deep, lasting love, with the gratitude and courage it takes to stay close to the people we love.
Dear @jane1289, hug your loved ones, those who are easy to hug and also keep your arms open for those loved ones, who after many battles, perhaps cannot easily get close.
Happy day to everyone in these Ladies Of Hive sisterhood, may the transition to the beginning of the weekend be smooth.
We keep multiplying the message…
Janitze.
Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia
Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera eighties Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited with Canva
Translation with |DeepL
