LOH235 || A loss is always difficult ...

The meaning of life. But it is the law of life, and there is nothing to do but live the duel on the terms of each one.

There are no formulas for it, to (recover), and in many cases professional help is sought, I do it.

Why?

Because life sometimes hurts, it's part of human nature and personal affectation is very personal, and everyone goes through the phases of grief from their own emotional tools and the ways they have to handle the challenges, challenges and opportunities that life puts on them.

When you choose to suffer it is easier to fall into depression, drama, complaint, when you choose death as the step to a better life you get comfort soon, when you choose to be congruent with your religion who dies follows the call of God, if you choose to think that because to me, it is selfishness acting because we are worried about how we are going to fill the loss... in short, everyone makes their own unpublished booklet when going through moments of grief, suffering, loss of a loved one, an acute problem, infidelity, a betrayal, an economic crisis, divorce, a special child.

How difficult it is to understand it and learn to live with it, because of the pain and anxiety it causes you. These tragedies are everyday problems of life, they are duels, sufferings that can happen to anyone.

And they live it according to their beliefs and in "being right" with ugly, unpleasant, exhausting thoughts, such as death, feeling exaggerated guilt, feeling that life has no meaning, that there is no motivation at all, that prevent you from looking at other appropriate spaces to somehow deal with the emotions that grief implies.

I have many stories of pain and suffering that have marked my life.

People need to be listened to, because every day we live hundreds of situations, problems, difficulties and internal pains, which are not easy to bring to light; with a lot of effort I have told my feelings and most intimate secrets to my therapist, it is never too late to start healing.

On the cover my photo dressed as a widow for the burial of the sardine, is a ceremony announcing the end of Carnival.

Thanks for asking, about this @ifarmgirl 😘

Janitze.🐝