Although some of your views are a bit insulting to women, you have a point and I understand it...some facts are truly hurtful...
Not with this one, though.
The female genders are too lazy and not too calculative to know what's good for them, they are tempted by material things because they want to belong automatically. So, slaying involves being intimate with the opposite gender without looking at the aftermath.
Let's not generalize it...if there is something to blame, I guess it's love... Not all are materialistic. Some ladies are just blinded by their feelings. Some tend to be ignorant despite the hurtful fact. Ladies are just weak, but men take advantage of it. However, when circumstances happen, it's not just the woman's will, but both of the involved parties...young people seem wild and free, so they tend not to care about the aftermath...there are safety measures though not to get pregnant.. That is another thing that young people should take into account before engaging in premarital sex... We can't avoid that thing. But we can avoid the worst circumstances...
But then you are right. If that really happens, it's better to raise your child alone than stay longer in a toxic relationship that can only harm both you and your child.
!LADY