This article is about self-control with wise words and wise thoughts.
As a woman who is growing and developing into adulthood, I need to convey this because some worlds are still considered unsafe for women. Let us learn to be independent women, strong women, understand others but also care about ourselves.
There are so many ways to ignite our enthusiasm for life, make us strong and steadfast in going through the many destinies of life other than listening to sermons. and one way that I always do when my enthusiasm is extinguished is to read books about self-development or simply read wise words on the internet or hear wise words from my mother.
even though some of my school friends say that wise words are all nonsense, for me those words can be good suggestions. I believe in what my mother said, "words can change people and the world."
every day there is news about violence against women, whether it is physical violence from their husbands, their bosses, including mental violence from their environment. in this case, every woman or most women who have the desire to get married definitely want a safe environment and have a good life partner, not rude so that it results in physical violence in the household.
on this basis, now I want to share wise words from the results of wise thoughts about the world of women from the results of my mother's reflections.
"Women need men who can consider them life partners not just housemates." my mother
"Understanding others is necessary, but caring about yourself is also very important" my mother
"Live with a man who treats women the way he treats his mother" my mother
"For all girls, live with a man who makes you believe that women are very valuable and strong, and also deserve every opportunity and chance in this world to pursue and achieve your dreams." My mother
"Live with a man who loves you not only physically but also by loving your soul" My mother
"Find a man who can be a father figure" My mother
"Live with a man who loves his mother and also loves your mother" My mother
"Live in an environment that not only needs you but can also appreciate you" My mother
Thank you for reading my writing. Hopefully useful.



