My Approach to Life

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This week’s contest is one that requires deep thought. It’s all about our approach to life. A big thank you to the organizer of this contest! @priyanarc
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Do you believe in having a structured routine or a more spontaneous approach to life?

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For me, I prefer a structured approach but always with a Plan B. I once faced a situation where my plans fell apart, and I decided to go with a more spontaneous approach. Unfortunately, it didn’t work out well for me, it felt like I was just trying things randomly without a clear direction.

Let me give you an example. There was a time when my business was doing well, and I had enough money to buy whatever I wanted. Life felt smooth, and I never thought of saving. But things changed before the COVID period when people struggled to survive with the little they had.

Imagine a woman with kids trying to sustain herself during such a tough time. That was when I turned to farming, and believe me, it became a very profitable venture. Since covid has passed, I am still into it because through the proceeds I am able to get what to eat with my family.

There was a point when I had no idea what my children and I would eat the next day. As a mother, begging wasn’t an option. Some church members offered financial aid, but I realized they, too, were struggling. They had worked hard to create a backup plan just to support me. That made me ask myself, why should I rely on others when I still had my hands, legs, and strength? That was when I decided to go into farming.
I had a landed property which was my inheritance and it was unused. I quickly called up someone to clear it off so i can get space to farm.

Link to my Farm post: https://hive.blog/hive-124452/@faithgifty34/my-small-garden-180

I am taking my to explain this because i wouldn’t like anyone to get into it. If for any reason you take life to be spontaneous, kindly have a plan B. Infact if you are also structuring your activities have a plan B incase it didn’t work out they way you expected.
In life, it’s always better to have a structured approach with a Plan B.
As my boss always says, relying on spontaneity and hoping things will always work out is risky. Yes, there may always be a way out, but what if there isn’t?

Thanks, ladies, for reading my blog! Until I come your way again, I’ll check out other entries to see if I can participate. Have a lovely week!

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Your story is inspiring to many people in the world. Covid time was horrible and our lives completely changed after the pandemic. You struggled a lot but your courage and the right decision made your life a little bit easier now than before. Atleast you don't need to depend on anyone for food. I applaud you for your courage...

Thanks for sharing such an inspiring, personal life story with us...

thanks so much @priyanarc . I appreciate the time spent reading

I am glad things worked out! It can be tough out there. Thanks for sharing and have a lovely day!

Thanks for reading Ma , enjoy your day pls

You are welcome! Likewise!

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Your story is so personal and inspiring. Supporting oneself is hard enough, doing that while being responsible for someone else? You're every shade of amazing. Well done. Thank you for sharing such a motivating story.

I appreciate your time reading.

I enjoy gardening with the small plot I have. It is not a necessity yet but I might one day depend upon it. And I remember that post of yours. You are so blessed with having much more space than I have, and a wonderful climate for a wide variety of foods. Gardening is an important skill to fall back on, and does require a constant routine to be successful.
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I appreciate the time spent reading. Thanks.

Well I will say I am lucky to have one space for farming and I depend on it.

That is an admirable story. Thank you for sharing it, 💖 I really like your approach and way of thinking. Now I need to think in in my plan B!

Thanks dear for the reading time. Do have a lovely day ahead.