Difficult moments are part of life. Everyone has gone through tough times in one way or another. I’m not left out, and today, I want to share how I handle my own difficult moments and the attitude I choose to carry through them.
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In the past, when I faced tough situations, I used to cry a lot. The pain and sorrow were so deep, and I felt helpless.
One major experience I often talk about is when I got pregnant at an early age. In my family, that was seen as something wrong, and because of that, I was rejected and sent out of the house. It was a painful time in my life. But I found strength in the encouraging words of my husband. He stood by me and never gave up on me.
You can compare me then lost in thoughts
And me now
With time, things got better. I moved into a house of my own, with my children, and today I’m doing well. I never imagined life would turn out this way for me. But I’m grateful.
Looking back, I don’t regret anything. Everything I went through taught me important lessons. Through those hard times, I became stronger and more courageous.
I came to realize that our approach to difficult moments matters a lot when it comes to finding a solution. The story I shared above wasn't always how I used to handle things. Back then, whenever I faced tough times, I would just cry bitterly. Even after all the crying, the situation would still remain the same.
But life has taught me how to be stronger during hard times. I’ve learned that the way I face a problem affects how I overcome it. Still, another thought crosses my mind sometimes, what if the situation doesn’t work out in my favor?
Here’s what I do now: if something doesn’t go the way I hoped, I remind myself that maybe it’s not meant for me. I make sure I’ve done my best to find a solution, but if things still don’t change, I don’t lose faith. I believe that maybe it’s not my time yet, or I may need extra help to succeed.
Ladies, please take note, there are some situations in life that require a higher hand. Sometimes, you’ll need support from a friend, a parent, or someone who truly cares about you. If you find yourself in such a moment, don’t be afraid to let them in. Don’t carry the burden alone. Sometimes, all we need is the right advice or a little wisdom to handle our difficult moments.
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So whenever I am faced with difficult moment, I accept it and view it as challenge, If i have done my best towards it and let several people in and it still didn’t resolve in all pursuit, I will leave it to some other time to handle. Maybe I am not the solution. But it doesn’t get to this point for me. May be 1 out of 10.
Thanks for reading! Until I come your way again, enjoy your week and stay strong.
