‘People are often fascinated by certain personality traits, styles, or habits of others and feel inspired to adopt them. However, despite their admiration, they may find it challenging to incorporate these traits into their own lives. Are there any specific traits or habits you find particularly admirable? What about these traits captivates you, and why would you like to adopt them? Have you ever made an effort to embrace them, and if so, what challenges did you encounter?’
I am often fascinated by certain personality traits, and over the years, i have found some that dont cease to amaze me every single time.
Yes, there are traits that I admire these are:
- Honesty
- Confidence
- Being optimistic
The thing is as a kid I did find it hard to tell the truth in some situations not because I was shielding myself from backlash but at that point if I had told it I thought “maybe they won't be friends with me anymore” that is where confidence and honesty comes in. I admire people who said the truth without any fear of consequences. And I can be pessimistic, so seeing people stay bright in the toughest situations was very amusing to me.
I did make efforts to incorporate these attributes into my personal life. I say the truth and stand by it, and I also look at the bright side in even the worst situations, and I am shocking myself. The younger version of me would be so shocked right now.
I did face challenges. I wouldn't even lie about that. There was a time when everything it going well, and all of a sudden, I would fall back to the old ways, and then I'll start all over again. It took so much tune and effort, but yeah, I made it through because I wanted a change for myself
Changing is hard and even harder when it is changing something you were born with. But if it is worth it, you'll stick to it till the very end, and yeah, the results will shock you.
Ps: These pictures belong to me and were taken with my mobile device
