I believe that family comes first. There’s no other choice. Because I feel that as women, seeing our family thrive gives us the utmost feeling of fulfilment. But what happens when we ourselves lack the energy to hold our family together? That’s why I don’t blame women who come off as selfish for putting themselves first sometimes. It’s just that we need to be taken care of as much as we give the care. We are beings too and fragile no matter how standoffish and strong we look.