I agree with you, forgiveness is a personal process. It's the time that sometimes helps us ease the pain so we can decide to share it. As you say, it doesn't mean reopening the same door to the person who hurt you. And yes, whether they deserve it or not, forgiveness is the gift we give ourselves, even when it's delivered late. It was great fun to read your reflection, full of grace and good humor. Thank you for sharing your experiences,
!LADY
!PIZZA