When it comes to life and the world we live in , there are certain level of control that we can exhibit, there are some things that no matter how hard we try , we can never control them. The weather, traffic, the way people act, they are not up to us . But then what sets us apart is how we react to these things, they make the difference.
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Let us take for instances, two people that are working under the same boss that is considered to be tough. The other might keep complaining about how tough the boss is . why the other might start improving their attitude , skills , or even start looking for another employment opportunity.
So you see , it is the same situation but it is being handled differently by two different people , one is tuck , while the other is growing.
This can be applied in almost every aspect of life, in school, in place of worship, church, home, in relationship. you can not handle some situations , but you can also handle the way you respond to them.
Taking charge or responsibility can be so powerful. Things that you can not change should not drain your energy, instead channel those energy to things that you can change. with time , you confidence and progress are built thereby keeping frustration away from you.
Think of that area of your life that you feel stuck, then ask yourself this speacial question, is there anything that i can do about this situation right now. If yes , then do it. It does not have to be a big one, even small simple steps could make a difference.
It does not entail that you blame yourself for everything, but it is about taking action where you can. Life will feel less heavy the moment you start doing this, then you start seeing that more actually depend on the way that you handle most situation.
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