This week's Ladies of Hive Community topic was to talk about whether we should love Carefully of should we b easy going and living in the current moment .
The discussions this week will be Really good .
Well if you ask me . I usually am more of a go with the flow and live the moment kind of person but when it's about investing your love and efforts into a relationship I will always and forever think Carefully.
The main reason is that for me personally I feel Loving someone for what they are is great but if you wanna love them to a point that you see a life with them beside them . Than you must think carefully.
Now what exactly do you have to ponder carefully about? Well in any relationship be sure to talk it out what is the Current status where do you see yourself with this person . Some times we love people but we can't commit to them properly.
So First thing you may wanna see is are you in it for a long term or a short term and talk it out with the other person too.
Another thing you wanna be careful about is how is this person on reality are they toxic or do they have behavior issues . Toxic traits like gaslighting and shaming you over little things is not okay . You may like a person but in a fight they minimize your pain and blame you for feeling that way and calling you dramatic . Just be away from them . I have seen alot of females being trapped in a loveless draining relationship because they are attached to this person . But that person actually is draining them emotionally and physically .
Love is something that should bring out the goods in you it's not something that should bring out the worst .
So if you are constantly crying to your sleep reconsider about who to love .
Another aspect to this is before loving anyone love yourself so you know what you deserve and want .
Many Women spend years making a Dead relationship work . Making them think that they are not good enough that is why they get hurt and cheated but that isn't the case. If only we were more careful at analyzing people their energy towards you and their intentions towards you. Then this problem will never come .
That's all for today Thank you for your precious time and support ❤️
