1️⃣ When was the first time you said, “I love you” to someone in your life other than family?
And tell us what your 'love languages is?
Was i really meant it many years ago? This has been a very difficult question to answer as many memories run through my mine. If to really think about deeply, who did I made this word “I love you” to, I think to be precise, not one, not two or even three I guess!
Oh no, this sounds jezzzz but I have to be plain, I love been myself and who I am. As times goes on I see this word just like a water pour on the back of a fowl, running down to the ground without bearing any fruit. Since there's was no fruit bear, I begin to cut them down until I finally meant the one I can recall vividly that I meant right from the first day my mouth was open to reply him back “I love you too” that it is indeed the ribs where I was taken from, hahahaha 🤣.
He was real and because of that, we became close to each other, chatting/calling on each other to know how is faring. Most Sundays, I will sneak out from the house just to sit close to him and he does the same too where we can also see, feel and sense the natural beauty of things made to had Joy to human existence.
Each passing day, the word become more intense with so much bond drawing to each other, it's become more serious to the extent of I cannot do without you and so, it was taken to a better and healthy level which is marriage. Today, he became mine and I his. Isn't this amazing!
For my love language, it is this contest that make me know that all the surprise gift I was gifted was one of the love language. Oh wahoo 😲, I only familiar with the physical touch, good time and act of service, you need to pardon me as we learn everyday, right? He normally buys gift for me without me knowing and now it's has become part of me to the extent of frawing my face when he comes back with nothing in his hand.
The feeling of spending quality time with my spouse was awesome especially when the physical touch comes in to play like giving me a warm hug, my hectic day will be over and I will felt a relieve of stress, satisfaction. When we cannot see each other, the feeling drop in me as a burden, am happy and I appreciate him for finally taken away the burden in me to become my forever love.
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