I believe the igbo tradition fuels this idea of possessiveness with the huge amount and marital rites attached like they were selling off their daughter. Hence, to the man, it's his property.
Marrying someone who understands you have your own say in the relationship or marriage and that you are not a property will help avoid problems in the future.
Well, you are right in a way, but that's not a good reason the woman should be taken as his property. This is part of tradition and everyone knows.
Moreover, this isn't peculiar to the Igbos, it's a worldwide phenomenon.
Again, it's not only the male folks that are guilty of this, females are too.
Absolutely, partners should respect each other's boundaries and freedom.
Thanks for sharing your insightful thoughts.
!BBH