I know it’s possible to live without a romantic relationship. A lot of people might have done that successfully even though I can’t point out one person who did that but we can never underestimate the power of romantic relationships.
Being lonely is never cute and that’s why everyday, I always try to make sure that my relationship works out well.
That may not be a guarantee to marriage because a cheat will cheat and no matter how you treat some people, they will still turn out to be bad people.
I haven’t lost count in the relationships that I have been in but at the same time, I’ve been in so many relationships that didn’t end well. Right now, I’m in a relationship but I’m hoping for this to end well.
Today, I decided to text a friend and share my experiences with her.
I thought I had seen it all when men break up with me after they are done with their main reason of coming to me at first but truly, what I have experienced is a tip of the iceberg compared to what she has experienced.
Teefah, my friend whom I texted so I could share my experience with her explained her story and that’s when I knew we all have our problems.
“I got married at the age of twenty two, had my first child at age twenty three,” her life was getting so interesting right here.
Sometimes, I actually wish I could be twenty two again because that’s the age I wished to get married but life happens.
“Unfortunately, my marriage didn’t even reach a year before we started having issues. Then, we got divorced. The most painful thing about my life recently is that, I lost my mum in the month of March, this year”.
Then here, I knew people are actually going through a lot. You’ve got your problems and I’ve got mine so if there is anyone somewhere who doesn’t appreciate the time you spare for him or her, let that person go.
We’re in the world where challenges are inevitable and you just have to face it whether you like it or not.
Do you know the most beautiful thing she did after the whole chat?
“Embrace your life, embrace your scars and your experiences. Smile and you’ll be a better person,” then I felt relieved. This is actually the best advice I’ve always needed and got from someone.
That made me feel relieved.