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One evening, I was just relaxing going through my contacts WhatsApp status.
Then, I read a write-up by one of my male friends which didn't sit well with me.
The write-up
"If you are interested in marrying a lady, you should look out for the characters and behaviours you see in the mother because that's a replicate of your wife to be"
I sent him a reply of "Is the opposite applicable?"
That is, can you do the evaluation as a lady, checking out the husband to be father's characters and behaviour?
He laughed and said I am twisting things.
My first reply is to let him know that his evaluation is groundless.
Yes, you can check the parents to ascertain some facts, not limiting it to one end.
One's characters and behaviour are made up of and are not limited to the following factors :
- DNA
- Societal components
- Environmental components
- Educational components
The first factor is from both parents.
So, channelling it to only one side doesn't make sense to me.
Maybe his basis was just gender based because he said a man should look out for what the mother would do.
What if the lady is her father's daughter?
This is a saying meaning that the child is a true definition of his father, in all areas, mainly character.
Then, you are busy looking at the wrong angle while the father sits pretty.
Later on, I saw him post screenshots of people who agreed with his opinion.
Which is fine, I just wish he gave me clear answers and reasons to believe too.
I just couldn't understand his evaluation and gender attacks.
He also nursed himself pretty well through all the "in agreement" comments he got.
What do you think about this?
Please share your opinion.
You can make me understand because I wish to.
Please note : I am not saying my point of view is 💯 right.
Thank you very much 😊
I hope to get responses 🙏