It's never easy at the start. I used to get almost no votes until I made some friends and got involved in some communities. The first year is the hardest, just find something interesting and write about it. Splinterlands has community posts that offer votes if you play it and follow the rules.

You might try to talk to Hive Watchers or Admin or whoever black listed you and see if they'll give you another chance. But getting off the black list would make your life much easier!