Fierce and fearless: Breaking Barriers loh#260

in Ladies of Hive17 days ago
  What's the best advice you've 
 ever received from a strong woman? 
 Describe a female character who 
 inspired or inspires you.

Advice, comes as guidance, counsel, warning, it all boils down on how you as the receiver, receives it.

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(Flowers! Cause why not)

     Marriage Advice

Okay listen, I am not yet married but there is no harm in trying to learn some wisdom from those already in the institution of marriage.

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(Marriage ceremony earlier this year)

 One of the best advice I have 
 gotten so far is...
  1. Don't air out your spouse's weaknesses outside, it will be used as a mockery point by outsiders

  2. Don't rant about who earn more in your marriage

  3. Always make and create good communication between each other

  4. making sure my passion is not paused, I should still have what will earn me money because who knows....life.

I have so many women in my life and on screen that inspires and inspired me.

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(You grow/do better when inspired)

If you ask any strong woman today on how she get to where she is today, you will know that there were lot's of struggle, and how she overcame those, that's what makes her even more inspiring to me, the road to her success.

Today is about, a random lady I saw, heard and listened, it's about her story on how she was left on the street by her mother to fend for herself at the age of 13.

Now, she must have struggled,and suffered on the way while growing up, or maybe worst fell into the wrong hands.

         But (inspiration point)

She never blamed her mistakes on anyone, rather she made it a point to use it as a lesson to her children and to those around her.

She made sure to nuture her children's dreams even if she is looked upon as someone without values.

She never failed to instill values into her kids so they can be of value to the community and the society at large.

She suffered so they can live a well and fulfilled life, not that every strong woman needs to go through this, but this is her story and it's her story of little beginning, which I believe has touched so many life's on the street.

You don't need to give up because you think your life is over.

You don't need to give up because you don't have any supporter.

And you don't have to give up because you think nothing good can come out of you.

Hello... you bring life's into this world that will build empire's.

Indeed everyone has a story but how you overcome those setbacks that's what makes you an inspiration to others, and these are some of the qualities I get inspired by, when I see women never giving up and not letting their suffering be ushered as hate towards their kids or those around them, rather make it a point for others to grow and learn from.

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Accountability is one trait that is very necessary. Rather than blame it on circumstances, they acknowledge the fact that the mistake came from them. This acknowledgment would even help them if a similar pattern occurs in their next endeavors. They know which path to avoid so they don’t make anymore mistakes.

Exactly, when someone is accountable to their mistakes,alot tend to learn from it and do way better.

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Your post is truly inspiring. I think the key is exactly where you say it is: in taking control of our own lives and fighting for what we want. We won't always succeed, but at least we'll have tried and not just complained. Everyone has their problems, although we only see their smiles.

Exactly, thank you for throwing more light into this.
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Those are wise marriage advices, I've learned them from you now. Fending for oneself from the age of 13 is definitely a lot of struggle. She can only get stronger.
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Am happy to know that those advices are indeed filled with wisdom.

13 years for me is still a child, I really give her credit.

Thank you for this wonderful feedback
!lady

These are a bunch of motivations and advice right here, but when life happens, we hardly remember to bring them to use.
"Experience remains the best life teacher ".

True, experience is the best teacher, we learn from them to do better, also for the next person not to make that same choice.

Thank you so much for adding more light into this.
!lady

Thank you for seeing it in that light.

You're welcome,LADY.

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