Love is a set of emotions characterized by passion and intimacy while Relationship is the way two or more people or something is connected to each other.
Love and relationship in this dispensation hits really not what it used to be before now. Most people who love have reasons for loving you,note you are not supposed to have a reason for loving someone.
You could meet somebody and you would love them because they give you money ,because they gift you, because the attend to any of your needs. And you could also meet somebody and love them because they love you unconditionally you could love them without any reason at all for you loving them and that is what we call unconditional love.
Love, relationship and intimacy are not to be treated as any regular stuff ,it takes two people who are willing to overlook each other's flaws, correct each other ,be patient with each other, be understanding and have a high level of maturity to be able to make a relationship work because it is not onesided then love must be in a relationship for it towork the only thing we should look out for if there is a particular reason why this person loves us what if that reason should fades that means they would stop loving us so you can see for yourself that it's not something that is easy to do it requires a lot of effort ,self-discipline and self-control to make it work.
Love is no longer what it is supposed to be back in the 80s or later than that when most of our parents found love and got married, love requires you to be considerate . You have to always consider the other persons feelings to consider what your actions will do to them ,how is going to affect them ,but this days most people that say there in a relationship practically go against each other knowingly or unknowingly .
Yes nobody is perfect but a lot of factors have influenced the way we handle love and relationship in this present age most men will say women are after money and they feel that you don't love them genuinely you might meet a man who is Willing and you genuinely fall in love with him and him on the other hand might just between thinking that you are after the money because looking at the way things are going in the country 80% of ladies love for money, everyone wants a better life.
As an adult I have had my fair share of love and relationship Saga it hasn't been easy I haven't been a perfect match. I have in one way or the other toiled with people's emotions all in the name of love and relationship and I've learned and I'm still learning today I actually learned that if you say you love someone you have to consider every action you take how is going to affect them your words what you do behind their back ,if they did get to find out about it how would they feel you have to put yourself in their shoes if you can do all this you would be able to maintain a good relationship that filled with genuine love and not infatuation or lost.
Love is a beautiful thing ,relationship is a beautiful thing when it's done when it's done out of the abundance of our heart it requires effort it's more like a lifetime job relationship from dating to courtship to marriage you committed to this person forever .It takes every inch and every part of you to be there to make it work even in the trying times you don't just walk away you don't just push the other party away you try and resolve it and stand strong to protect what you both have shared .So love and relationship requires maximum effort it is never to be treated carelessly it should be handled with care.
The matters of the hearts are very deep so to everyone out there I know that we both have had our fair shares of heartbreaks from relationships so many promises that will never kept ,the love that was just out of spoken but never shown, love is beautiful with the perfect person relationship is wonderful with the right person let us try to be the perfect and the right person to be able to attract the perfect person.
So please let's all change our mindset towards love and relationship let's see it from the positive aspects and I believe is going to help most of us too not fall into bad relationships or get betrayed at the end.
Love and relationship should not be handled as regular matters.
Thank you.
