Children can be so difficult to control and to be taken care of most of the times the parents have to discipline them for them to adjust to what is right sometimes most parents finding difficult that after discipline their children they tend not to change rather the situation become worse and severe. Just like everyone known that children are one of the most difficult range of individual to control and to be taking care of. However, psychology has it that children within the age of two years to ten years (2-10) have the high tendency of disturbance and because of how hyperactive they are, they display high level of disturbance and can just stop like that. That is why it seems to be difficult for parents to control their children who are between the age of 2 to 10 years, moreover it does not just stop at the age of 10 years there a lot of children and adolescence display this attitude of disturbance and hard to be taking care of and to be controlled. And most of the time, some parents is it the limit where discipline have to stop, discipline stop paying I mean when it crosses the boundary and now become maltreating. Therefore parents should strike a balance between how they discipline their children because there is a way you will discipline children and they will stick that particular forth because of maybe used to a particular maltreating and no more disciplining
There are a lot of ways which we can discipline our children without maltreating them I can see for first before discipline has to come in there should be a good relationship between the children and the parents which I will give it a name as SUFFICIENT LOVE when children are in good relationship with their parents they tend to obey them, hear them and stick to what they say. I can say that other things fall in place when talking to your children over something fail to change them or when they fail to obey to their parents words and instructions. As children which they are a time will come when they will try to do what is in your mind without knowing the consequences at that point in time they need this parents advice, corrections and guidance as well. This is when as a parent you imply other means of discipline which one of them can be, Setting rules and regulations. When there is rule and regulation children tend to obey them and not to do anything because there is a consequences or a punishment attached to any rule and regulation that is being defaulted.
You can use verbal weaning to a way to control and discipline your children, most of the time when we hear discipline we think is all about beating children there are situation where children will pass boundaries and it will involve you as a parent to use the rod so that the children will not spoil. Well before then we have to try other means of discipline children without using the rod first and we should not be afraid to use the rod as well. Therefore, All I'm trying to say in essence is that we as parents should create a balance why discipline our children.
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