Grateful Amidst Doubt - LOH 261

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This week we're presented with wonderful and thought provoking topics that I believe, calls for moments of reflection. Many thanks to @ifarmgirl for this.


Just like every other human, I have dreams, desires and aspirations, and that's why I'm up every day, grinding it one way or another, hoping that one day I'll sit back and smile, having achieved them all.

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However, each time I look back at the things I'm yet to accomplish, the unmet goals and desires, I often find myself caught up in a web of thoughts - I'm stuck and can't move forward, I'll never succeed, I'm a damned failure and so on.

These thoughts are a burden that weigh me down, making me doubt my abilities and wonder if I'll ever achieve my goals and desires. It's hard not to think that I'm not doing enough or that I'll never get there.

One of them is my educational goals. I've always wanted to further my studies, but considering my financial situation, location and other things in between, that dream seems far fetched. I've tried to save up a couple of times, but alas, other expenses keep getting in the way, dampening the dream and it's frustrating. Seeing friends and peers advance in their education makes me feel like I'm being left behind.

I must confess that it's sometimes hard not to compare myself to others and feel like I don't belong or I'm not measuring up. However, in the midst of all these, I still try to remind myself that everyone's journey is different, and comparisons are no good. Instead of comparing, I try to focus on what I can do now, taking small steps towards my goal, like exploring options that might work for me - free online courses and scholarship programs, and trusting that things will work out in the end.

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Although I'm yet to get there, I still try to live a life of gratitude each day, knowing that my life is a work in progress, and that I can still get to the top one day. Practising gratitude helps me stay present, and appreciate the simple things of life, and what I have rather than getting caught up in what I don't have.

A grateful heart is a magnet for miracles! It attracts positivity, joy, and blessings.

Today, I'm thankful for the gift of life, for the opportunities I have, for my loved ones, and those who support me in this life's journey.

Life is a blessing, only the creator gives it.

This morning, I heard a tragic but shocking story. One that touched me and left me feeling much more grateful for the precious gift of life. The story has it that a woman who was conveying her husband's corpse home for burial was involved in a fatal accident. A trailer ran into them, crushing the ambulance, and killing her and the driver on the spot.

After hearing the story of the tragic event, I couldn't help but feel thankful that I am #alive and thriving, and for the protection that God gives me every day. By his grace, I wake up every morning, go about my day and at the end, I go home, full of life and unharmed. Many individuals slept but never woke up. Some have gone to the great beyond while looking for ways to make ends meet.

Being blessed with wonderful family and friends, is a thing to be thankful for. Their care, encouragement and support in good times and bad times filld me with gratitude.

I'm particularly thankful for the basic necessities of life - food, clothing, and shelter. Seeing those who struggle to meet these needs on the streets makes me appreciate what I have. I have a roof over my head, food to eat, and clothes to wear, and for that, I'm truly grateful.

While still hoping to achieve my big dreams, I don't fail to appreciate how far life has brought me. I look at my little successes, my small wins and everything in between, and I can't help but feel grateful for every step taken to get where I am today.


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It's good to snap out of self-pity or doubt whenever the thought comes. You are right, it's never good to compare our lives with others, because it will only make us bitter. Appreciating what we already have makes the difference.

The news about the accident is heartbreaking. May their souls rest in peace. Happenings like this remind us how precious and unpredictable life is. Keep that grateful heart, !LADY🩷


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Not only can comparison make one bitter, it can lead to jealousy and other negative vibes. Contentment is key to happy life.

It's a sad story indeed and I hope the family pulls through this tragic moment.

Thank you and do have a lovely day.
!HUG

Very true. And that key is accessible to all of us, we just have to use it :)

Hoping they get through it in God's grace. Thank you too :) !BBH

Eeeehhh that's such a painful death.....some life event that just get us so anxious. May God comfort their family that's a big lost.

My dear, no one should hold this life with strong hands o, hoping it'll go as desired.

Amen. Indeed it is and my heart goes out to them.

!BBH

Gratitude leads to more joy in us. I feel so sad about the woman's pathetic story. It is well.
While we are alive, we should not stop showing gratitude, knowing when there is life, there is hope.
Comparison will steal our joy but instead we should focus on building ourselves while hoping for the best.

Very well said. Show me a grateful heart and I'll show you a contented person.
Thanks for coming around and sharing your thoughts.
!BBH

It's good not to compare ourselves to anyone, because there are always people who can do things we can't, just as there are people who don't have what we do, and then you see the positive side of yourself. I loved that you see each of your achievements, no matter how small, as a blessing. The truth is, every time we give thanks, even for the smallest things, we attract more reasons to be thankful. Keep praying to see your student dream come true. God hears persevering prayer.

It was a pleasure reading your story. I wish you luck in the contest. 🙏🏼 May God greatly bless your life, that of your family and friends. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Very well said. Comparison is a cankerworm that eats deep into one, leaving them embittered and ungrateful. No one should ever think about comparing themselves to others.

Yes, every little achievement is a blessing to be grateful for. Even the word of God in the Bible says "do not despise the days of little beginnings."

Exactly, when you give thanks, even for small things of life, you attract more blessings.

I appreciate your visit, insightful words and warm wishes to me and loved ones. Thank you.

Wishing you all the best, health and wellness.
!HUG
!LUV
!LADY
!BBH


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Thank you very much 🙏🏼 Blessings 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

I love how you keep finding murals!
That was so tragic a story to hear. But it reaffirms to me why I live in the now, we never know what is around that corner.
Have a blessed week luchyl. More education ... you seem educated enough to me!

The best thing is that you have a dream to fulfill. Sometimes it seems impossible, but there's always a chance, even if it's very small.

A few years ago, I wanted to continue my studies, but no matter how hard I worked, I couldn't afford to pay for private college and continue. So, I researched the requirements for public universities and patiently waited until I was able to enroll.

Also, as you mentioned, there are several online training programs that can help you acquire skills that can help you get a job.

I wish you success in everything!

I'm glad you were able to find a way to get enroll and continue with your studies.
Yes, the online space is a great place to get firsthand trainings on programs of choice. I've trained in some and hope to get more.
Thank you. Greatly appreciate the support.
!BBH

Buen texto. Tu post es alentador y da esperanza. Totalmente de acuerdo, nuestro limite es nuestra mente. 🤗

Indeed, it's all in the mind, and our thoughts determine the actions that follows.
I appreciate your visit and engagement.
!BBH

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Good grief, what a tragedy for that woman and her husband.
Life is short, such stories should compel us to live life more to the fullest.
!LADY


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Well said. All we need to do is to love, and live aright.
Thanks for coming around.
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Sometimes, negative thoughts try to creep into our minds and distract us from the things going on right in our lives. It's great that you are focusing on the positive sides of life. Keep pushing, dear Luchyl, one day your dream will become a reality.

The accident is such a sad story to read, I hope that the departed souls rest in peace.

Was just smiling through this write-up until I got to the spot of the tragic event 😢.
Thanks to God for the life we have.
I am happy that you are taking it one day at a time and restraining yourself from comparison.
Comparison saps our strength and hinders us from seeing our own growth and developments.
Thanks for sharing 👍

Life is filled with good and sad news, teaching us that life isn't a one way traffic.
Yes, while I hope for better days, I need to live for the now, which of course, it's a privilege and equally live with contentment.
I appreciate your engagement.
!BBH

I agree with you 💯 👍
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