When I was pregnant I wasn't really worried about the gender of my baby. I just wanted a safe delivery and healthy baby. When my son came I was so happy to be a boy mom, because in my home we were all girls and I am the oldest. I was already used to the girl child.
Having a choice about a gender isn't bad at all, there are ways people go about planning the gender of their children and it works.
Your dughters are 🥰🥰 adorable.