most of the people nowadays live for social validation
"oh i'm dressed well?", "oh i need more makeup", "oh what people will think if i use this old car" etc... that because social spreaded the need to receive confirmation that you are doing good, you are following the other sheeps and conform...
i dont give a fuck at what people think, sometimes they tell me "you should dress well and elegant to go to work, what will other think" and my reply is always "who fucking cares of what others think", is it gonna improve my life appealing others? no ... is it gonna ruin my life not appealing others? neither